Yes I know that most people value a person from a first impression in 5 seconds.
But many times it is wrong.
strange how today a women came to me and to say hi, I helped her family with moving few weeks ago.
What is strange is that a year ago I rang to her sun and she answered the phone ,she asked who is it and shut the phone when I said my name.so I rang his mobile.
''sorry'' he said.
''why, did she said baldy foreigner'' I asked. ''oh no'' he said ''did you hear that?'' he asked.
''no'' but I could guess.
Sadly I know that in his country If i send an e-mail /a letter or ring. some people do not like my name or my accent and will delete it.
I know that there are many salesman sounds like me on the phone, I think i woudnt shut he phone to them too.
Anyway to get to know me better:
My first name is Ofer - in Hebrew (Israel, Bible) mean a young deer (bambi)
The second name is El-Hashahar means 'to the done' or 'God of the done'
I think about changing my name ( even that it is only my nearest family with this sir name) .
I thought about Jeffri as it got some similar sound.
My wife think it is an old name: what do you think?
I ask you as friends.